The art of kissing a woman

Most guys want to know how to make out with a girl. Let’s face it: kissing is fun! And even better, a good make out session can lead to some fun in the bedroom.

However, most men underestimate the importance of a good make-out session.

Going out with a girl is a big deal. Usually, what happens between you and a woman is totally unequivocal. You can’t back out of a make out session. It’s the bright red dividing line between “friends” and “romance.”

When you make out with a girl, it becomes undeniable for each other that your relationship is more than just “friendship.”

No matter how much you hang out with a girl, flirt with her, or touch her, everything can still be considered “innocent.” Even if you’re both sure your relationship with each other is progressing toward romance or the bedroom, kissing takes all uncertainty out of the equation.

The real danger of making out with a girl is the fact that the act of kissing, touching, caressing and all of that releases the tension that you have built up up to that point.

Without tension, there is a danger of “missing the moment” and the girl losing interest. Trust me, this happens more than you think. Without good timing and follow up, making out with a girl can kill your chances with her in the long run.

Since kissing is usually the unmistakable first part of kissing, once you and a woman start flirting and connecting, and you start building that tension, she starts to anticipate it.

She will imagine what it will be like to kiss you. She will wonder if you are a good kisser. And so. That tension and ambiguity is fun and exciting for her. He keeps her interested.

But once you kiss her, that ambiguity and tension disappear.

You need to avoid this kind of disappointment so that you can intensify the make-out session. To do this, you need to reestablish the tension after you start kissing her.

This is important because you want to keep her in that romantic emotional state that she is experiencing. Without this tension, those emotions that she feels could disappear. To create more tension during the kiss, try this:

1. Kiss her like she kisses you. If she is a soft kisser, she kisses her softly. If she’s using a lot of tongue, she’s using your tongue a lot. People kiss how they like to be kissed! She uses that to your advantage.

2. Do not keep your lips closed for a long time. Withdraw, she breaks the kiss and goes back inside. A long session of short kisses is better than a short session of long kisses.

3. Physically teasing her. Run your hand up her leg, but pull it back before you get too high. Run your hand across the small of her back, under her shirt. But don’t take this too far! Again, you don’t want her to feel uncomfortable moving too fast.

4. Kiss her on the neck. Don’t stay on the lips, move on to her neck, her shoulders (if you can), and her ears. These are all erogenous zones, so if you spend some time kissing them, it will work to arouse the girl you are with more.

5. Talk to her. Don’t forget the power of auditory stimulation! Break up with a kiss from time to time and whisper in her ear. Ask him to reaffirm what is happening. Say things like “Does this feel good?” or “Tell me how much you like this…” The more you can get a girl to state what’s going on during the kiss, the more tension you’ll create.

Make sure to build some tension before you try to make out with her. This is imperative – you can easily shoot him and you will easily shoot him if you don’t.

Developing this tension before attempting to kiss is essential. If you don’t have it before you start, you’ll probably have problems. Don’t forget that.