Nine Aquarius Relationship Tips to Have a Heart Orgasm

Aquarius energy has a purpose, to achieve freedom. His energy, the scientific reasoning that has gone into so many inventions, has definitely given us freedom in one of the most important areas of our lives. It’s hard to remember that not too many years ago, an entire day could be spent preparing meals, cooking for hours, and cleaning, leaving little time to spend with our children. Now, if we wish, we can cook the same meals in minutes, since many are already prepared for us. It seems impossible that a roast can be cooked in just seven minutes, if you’re a Costco fan, but it can.

Now the question is, what are you doing with this extra time? Are you doing what was intended; to achieve freedom so that there is more time to connect with your children, your partner, your family or friends? Or did you just fill your time with more hard work, sacrificing yourself and his health? Or are you having fun?

If you’re one of those people who didn’t take advantage of the gift of freedom to you, more time to connect, here’s some relationship advice for you this month. Learn to have a heart orgasm? What surely you mean “have a sexual orgasm”? No, I said, “heart orgasm,” but I would tell you that if you haven’t taken the time to really tune in and open up your sexuality, the concept of a heart orgasm might seem a little strange.

But let’s be an Aquarius and look at sex from a scientific reasoning point of view, what is one of the main purposes of sex? In addition to sexual liberation, it is to connect. Someone who has surrendered to the magic of sex knows the power to connect and has carried the ability to connect into many other areas.

Emotionally, if you really connect with a person, overcome all resistance, and actually make a heart connection, that’s a heart orgasm. And just like physical sex, the more skilled you are at getting into that heartfelt, intimate connection, the less time it will take. Let’s stick with the sex analogy, if you’re not very skilled at emotional foreplay, it can take hours over dinner, copious amounts of wine, until you really connect and want to surrender.

Here are some tips:

1. Focus on your partner, your child, your parents, or whoever you are preparing to meet. No one else in the world exists for you. That means putting down your cell phone while you prepare for this meeting of the heart.

2. Now turn your attention to what you really like or love about this person. Do not succumb to how bad everything is, the wounds and the dislikes; that’s just your resistance. Set the stage for yourself emotionally. This is your emotional foreplay.

3. Now reflect on what it is in you that the person would want to connect with if they could overcome your resistance as well. This is one of your best qualities that you have shown to the person as: love, acceptance, caring, caring, courage; I hope you have a long list to choose from.

4. Now, with a smile on your face that is always contagious, knock on the door and keep smiling.

5. If the person receives you with an attitude of disgust, pain or a bad day, do not take it personally. Maybe the person isn’t good at sex at heart and didn’t emotionally prepare for you. After all, you could be learning on your own.

6. If applicable, touch the person; physically connect but then back off, give the person space.

7. Say something like. “I was thinking about you before I came here and you know one of the qualities you have that really attracts me is (fill in the blanks). Pause to let it settle.

8. Then say, “We’re going to have a good time with each other; let’s really enjoy each other (now you’re setting the stage emotionally with the other person).

9. So whether you say something out loud or not, really love that person. you will have the heart orgasmand maybe, the other person will too.

And when that happens, just like physical sex, you’re full and you don’t need more at the time. Neither did the other person.

During Aquarius, why not become a master of connection, heart wise, and fill yourself with heart and emotional orgasms with every person you meet? It’s fun and it’s truly the purpose of freedom, more connection. Even the Berlin Wall fell for a purpose, so that people who were apart could connect with each other.

Here is the abundance of cardiac orgasms!