Increasing a woman’s libido: 3 little-known secrets to turn her on more often

If you are trying to arouse your wife more often, you could be making things worse. A woman’s desire to have sex with a man is largely based on her perception of him and her beliefs. When the boy does not understand this, he ends up initiating sex without paying attention to how it is currently perceived.

So if his wife tells him night after night that she’s not in the mood, he will assume that she doesn’t enjoy sex as much as he does. The real problem begins when you try to solve it. You will most likely end up having arguments that end up convincing you that she has a low libido.

This is the worst thing he could have done.

Once you believe that you have a sexual desire problem, your libido will worsen because a person’s actions are fueled by their beliefs (about themselves, about others, about all kinds of situations, etc.) in the mood for sex more often. you need to focus on 4 key things.

The first thing is to realize that it is possible to arouse her more often. His desire for sex is a response to how effective you are in heating up his desire.

It is a psychological process.

Most men will “ask you to have sex” without even realizing that “asking” is not an effective way to get you to crave sex. All it does “ask” is to communicate that YOU have a desire to have sex. That is all. If you wanted her to laugh more often, you would “do things” that she finds funny (more often). So that’s the first key; realizing that it is possible to arouse her more often.

The second secret is to change the way she perceives you.

At first you should be obsessed with knowing what she considers a “desirable boy”. The best way to do this is to have conversations about past relationships.

Be on a mission to get her to tell stories of:

• Guys she was in love with.
• Boys she fell in love with.
• Famous people you admire.
• Etc.

That way, you can begin to secretly listen to the characteristics / traits that you have been shown to respond to.

Most women cannot tell you everything they find desirable about a man, because they have limited awareness of the process. In other words, all they know is that they “REALLY like him.” His conscience is in his feelings, not in the boy’s process.

The good news is that you can have him give you detail after detail and unknowingly he will give you information that he doesn’t even realize is relevant to what he finds desirable in a guy.

The third secret is knowing how to affect how you feel.

You see, turning her on isn’t rocket science. It’s about guiding your perceptions and guiding your emotions. This is why the success rate in getting her to want to have sex increases dramatically when she feels like herself.

So go through a process to make her feel good about herself. Congratulate her on something she did that most people overlooked. Making her feel sexy by complimenting her smile and creativity. In conclusion, your basic strategy for turning her on more often should involve doing things to make yourself more desirable and eliminating the hidden behaviors that turn off your sex drive.