I want to get revenge on my ex boyfriend: this is what I did

I was married less than a year when my husband called me on the phone one day to say that he wanted a divorce. No wonder in the use of the phone, he also proposed to me that way.

However, I was surprised. This had been a life-changing experience for me, as once I got married I moved to her state, I also quit my job to find work in her hometown. I moved my daughters to a new school and literally became a Mrs. and you forgot me.

He was angry, hurt, and ready to kill him. I want revenge. It’s a kind of frustrating anger that slowly builds up inside you until you want to explode. At first I tried the nice way and cooperated with his separation plan in the hope that he would change his mind. I watched him pack his things and leave.

Now I am left alone with my girls in a strange town without my friends, only his family and acquaintances. I knew I had to get out of there and go home, where I felt safe and loved.

I quickly packed my bags and moved out even though it was the middle of the school year and I didn’t have a job at home. It felt great to at least have some control over my life.

Once back home, I had a lot of time to think about what he did and my anger grew even stronger. I felt like I had left something undone that hadn’t fought for my side. Now that a few weeks had passed, I began to think that this would be a good time to get revenge on my ex, he would never see it coming.

I went over what I loved the most and what I could destroy. I imagined traveling back to his hometown, he often worked late so I knew where he could find his car. He could easily sneak into the parking lot and pour red paint on his pretty white car that he loved so much. That would be sweet revenge on my ex.

Better yet, for real revenge, you could write a letter to your boss accusing him of bribery and theft, which would have gotten you fired! Or even call his mother and lie to her about the physical abuse that would have hurt him and her.

I played over and over again in my mind how to do these things and how I would feel afterward. My girlfriend even volunteered to drive with me to carry out my revenge against my ex plans, we had it all planned out.

Then I realized, what kind of person am I? Do I need revenge to move on and feel better about myself? There was nothing wrong with me, I didn’t do anything wrong, it was he who was the idiot. What better revenge against my ex than to completely erase him from my heart and my life? As if it never existed on this planet!

I felt better knowing that I didn’t have to go into extreme actions to get over it. Hurting him would only prove that he meant something to me and that I would never feel that emotion again. Taking revenge on my ex would only have hurt and depressed me because it wouldn’t have restored my relationship, one that was obviously not right in the first place.

Yes, getting back at your ex is the first reaction when they hurt you. But if you give yourself time to really think and figure out exactly who you will hurt, it will fade away pretty quickly.

Life experiences are just mistakes if you don’t learn from them. Now you know that you should be careful next time. Take the time to invest in yourself by learning from the mistakes of other couples. There are many great resources on the internet that will teach you what to look for and how to build a sold relationship.

Next time there will be no heartaches or thoughts of revenge because you will know more about yourself and how to have a love that will last forever.