What Sherry Argov doesn’t know about making him propose
sherry argov, New York Times bestselling author of “Why Men Marry Bitches” and “Why Men Love Bitches,” she obviously knows a lot about men, or at least her readers like what she has to say enough to to make her a bestselling author. While you can certainly read her books and get some answers, do you really want to resort to being a “bitch” to get her to propose? She is very honest in the titles of her books and says “Why Men Marry Bitches: A Women’s Guide to Winning Her Man’s Heart”.
Note the keywords you use: “Guide a woman.”
Answer this: who is better equipped to tell you how to win YOUR man’s heart, a woman, or a man? While there are definitely women in the world who will show you “how to please your man”, as evidenced by the many raunchy videos on the internet, getting him to propose is a completely different way.
Believe it or not, when it comes to marriage, a man is not governed by his sexual organs. Sex and marriage are not in the same bucket for a man. Yes, sex comes with marriage, but it’s not the reason he gets married. The reasons a man gets married are much more complicated than that and will vary with the man, but for most, it’s because his “guts” tell him “she’s the one.”
Bringing him to that point won’t work if you try to be a “bitch” or try to manipulate him. Coercing or cajoling him won’t work either, and he’ll end up not only resentful of you, but also walking away. A man’s gut instincts have served him well for a long time. His gut instincts don’t go through his brain to be analyzed like a woman’s intuition does, they are integrated into his whole being. This is how he survived as a “hunter” and survived wars throughout the ages. When his “gut instincts” kick in, he responds automatically, period.
Authors loved by the publishing industry due to high book sales are one thing. But anyone can claim “expert” status, write a book these days and get published on Amazon. Who would you go to for advice on how to “win” her heart, expert or not, men with hearts, or a woman of unknown relationship status?
What does your “woman’s intuition” tell you? Follow it safe. Just like a man and his “gut instincts,” following your woman’s intuition will never lead you astray.