The practical guide to performing cunnilingus
So what is cunnilingus? You may not be familiar with the word, but most of you are definitely familiar with the act. Cunnilingus is defined as the act or practice of orally stimulating the female genitalia. In other words, it is the scientific term for when a man performs oral sex or “falls” with a woman.
Cunnilingus can cause a woman to explode into multiple orgasms when done right. So it makes sense that some refer to it as the fine art of sex using the mouth and tongue. However, it generally takes a skilled lover to bring your partner to orgasm orally.
Most women require clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm and find it difficult with penetration alone. Therefore, the biggest benefit of oral sex is that you can directly stimulate the clitoris with your tongue. Get this right and you’ll have your lover writhing in ecstasy and begging you for more.
It’s about technique
Take it easy by kissing your partner and slowly moving down their body. Kiss and gently caress your partner’s breasts with your hands and mouth. Then, inch by inch, slowly slide your tongue down her stomach until you reach her hips.
Increase your anticipation by stopping here to gently brush your lips over and between her hip bones. Move from side to side teasing her by licking and blowing gently on her lower stomach. Then he begins to kiss and caress the inner thighs, one of the most tender spots on a woman’s body.
As your arousal intensifies, your breathing quickens. This is your signal: now is the time for things to really start. First, spread the outer folds of your vagina with one of your hands and use the other to find her clitoris. Keep in mind that the clitoris is made up of 8000 nerve fibers, which makes it the most sensitive point in the entire female body, so approach it slowly and gently.
Begin gently touching your partner by moving closer to her clit and then moving slightly away. This tease will excite her and excite her even more. Now spread your legs gently and slowly.
Continue stroking the clitoris, and when it gets harder, use your tongue to separate the inner vaginal lips, running your tongue up and down between the layers of flesh. Now he begins to gently lick the clitoris. When you feel her getting close to orgasm, turn your lips into an O and bring her clit to your mouth. Suck gently at first, slowly increasing the intensity as you suck harder.
There are other things you can do while continuing to lick and suck on the clitoris. Women also enjoy additional stimulation, such as using your finger to penetrate their vagina or stimulate the erogenous zone at the top of their vagina.
The key to getting your partner to orgasm with oral sex is paying attention. Be guided by the changes in your breathing and any sounds of pleasure you may make. If you are not sure if she likes what you are doing, ask her.