Building Bond – 19 Ways to Build Bond in Marriage
1. Study the Bible together: This will increase your closeness to God and to each other.
2. Plan together: Plan your future together, because two good heads are better than one.
3. Live together: Live together in the same town, same house and in the same room.
4. Talk together: Communication is the foundation of intimacy. Therefore, learn to argue together. Don’t just talk, talk heart to heart; speak deeply
5. Walk together: Walk together hand in hand. Always walk or walk together like love birds.
6. Rejoice together: Don’t monopolize your glory or victory, share it and celebrate it together.
7. Work together: Work is twice as tedious when done alone. Cultivate the habit of sharing the workload and being helpful to one another.
8. Sleep together: Never stay in different rooms. No “daddy’s room” and “mommy’s room.” Being in the same room in the same bed.
9. Cry Together: If there’s a reason to cry (God forbid), do it together; a problem shared is a problem solved.
10. Spend together: Never hide your pocket from your spouse’s pay, what God has united, do not separate any account.
11. Play together: make white jokes, laugh, watch movies, touch each other, play games. Try to relax your nerves by being playful with each other.
12. Pray together: Let God be in charge of your home by praying together always and regularly.
13. Praise God together: Raise holy hands with one accord to bless the Lord for His faithfulness, mercy, protection and goodness over your marriage.
14. Being together: enjoying the company of others; be together doing great and beautiful things.
15. Babysit Together: Help your wife raise the kids; It is not the work of women only.
16. Enjoy sex together: Make sex pleasurable for both of you; enjoy together the great gift of God.
17. Serve God together: It is a wonderful thing when couples serve God together; it improves their own relationship by drawing them closer to God and sets a good example for their children.
18. Bathing together: Get in the habit of bathing together at night, on weekends, and on holidays; improves intimacy and a good sex life.
19. Do projects together: Buy cars, build houses, and run projects together. Have the same vision and focus, do all things together at all times.